Fun and Fitness: Don't play the numbers game, just get off the scale!
We all come in different shapes and sizes; skinny, chubby, obese, thick, short, tall, heavy-boned, lengthy, stalky, heavily built and short-limbed. You name it; it's out there. Hell, I even have a few skinny fat friends. So many factors come into play when it comes to a person's own weight. The main factors include height, bone mass, fat mass, muscle mass, and water. Being dehydrated or retaining a lot of water can have a big impact on weight, since the majority of our bodies are made up of water. Even having a big meal or wearing heavy clothing can add a few pounds when you step on the ol' scale. People often appear heavier or lighter then what they actually are and it all boils down to the factors stated above. For example, an old friend of mine is heavier built then myself and it is quite obvious, yet I'm still heavier then him. Most people think he's heavier, but my slight height advantage and thicker bone mass make me a naturally heavier person. But if you asked me whose build I'd rather have, I'd take his.A friend of mine is entering an upcoming bodybuilding competition as a lightweight, and he keeps insisting to me that he has to get up to 160 pounds or he's going to get blown out of the water. If you were to look at him, he appears to be 175 pounds because of his heavyset build. I keep telling him that it doesn't matter how much he weighs, but rather how he looks on stage and believe me, he looks very good. On the flip side of this scenario, my friend Jill stands at 5'5 and at one point weighed 140 pounds. Most people would assume that she's quite chubby at hearing this because girls are generally light in weight, but that's not the case at all. She looks like she's about 120-125, but she has a very athletic build with dense muscle mass. If you were to pick her up, you'd be amazed at how heavy she is, although she is quite tiny.
Too many guys get hung up on being a certain weight because they feel it makes them more of a man or that it means they have a better build. Too many girls get hung up on their weight because they feel the scale has to show them a low number or else they're not skinny enough. The only people that should be concerned with what their exact weight is are those people who need to be a certain weight for a certain reason (i.e. weight divisions in sports, doctor's recommendations, etc.). For the rest of you, this whole weight concept should be treated very similar to the old saying “you're only as old as you feel.” If you're healthy and you like what you see in the mirror, why should a number on a scale make any difference?