Crime prevention tip of the week

February is a romantic month, a time where people make plans and strive to impress that special someone. But remember: no means no. It can be said at any time by anyone and means exactly that. It means stop. Do not proceed. Consent has been removed.

Long gone are the days of “they’re just testing my persistence. If I keep trying they’ll give in and we can do this.” People advance in relationships at their own pace and it may be faster or slower than yours. When it comes to advancing to the physical side of the relationship, be sure that your partner is on the same page. You both need to be sober, aware and most importantly conscious. There needs to be informed consent.

If you proceed without that consent, it is sexual assault. More commonly referred to as rape. Sexual assault can be anything from touching to full on intercourse. It is all punishable by time in prison, fines, probation and addition to the sexual offenders’ registry.

Having a physical relationship with a person who is in the same place in your relationship as you are and is consenting can be a wonderful and beautiful thing. Do everything you can to protect that.

If something does happen report it; if not for yourself, to prevent someone else from becoming a victim. Remember that you are not alone. There is help available at many places both within and outside the college. You will be believed.

If you have questions about this or any other crime prevention concerns please feel free to contact Steve Hartwick with Campus Security Services either by phone at 519-452-4430 ext. 4929 or e-mail at shartwick@fanshawec.ca.